You’re a sexy, sexual woman. 💋
But somewhere along the way…you abandoned that version of yourself.
✦ Maybe you went through a divorce or breakup that left you so hurt that you shut yourself down sexually - and now, even though you’re horny as hell, you’re afraid to put yourself back out there.
✦ Maybe you’ve spent years in a relationship having mediocre, predictable sex and slowly stopped asking for the things you’re actually craving.
✦ Or maybe fear, shame, or worrying about how you’ll be perceived led you to bury your fantasies instead of seriously considering what you want, saying it out loud, and allowing yourself to experience it.
However it happened, the result is the same: instead of owning what you want, expressing it, or moving toward it, you’ve been living a watered-down version of your own sexuality.
And being a sexual woman with nowhere to put all of that sexual energy is fucking TORTURE.
But your power lies in remembering that YOU get to decide what you want, who you want to be, and how you want to live - and then moving accordingly.
Your desires are allowed to become more than fantasies you keep to yourself.
They can be expressed. They can be explored. And they can be fulfilled.
The woman who knows what she wants, believes she can have it, and refuses to let fear or shame stop her from pursuing it is still in there.
It’s time to bring her back.
Introducing Sexy Back
A 21-day challenge to reclaim the sexiest, most sexual version of yourself you abandoned somewhere along the way.
Over 21 days, you’ll get honest about what you really want, own it without shame, express it without apology, and begin taking steps to make it happen.
THIS is for you if…
You’re coming out of a divorce, breakup, or sexless relationship and want to put yourself back out there - but fear, uncertainty, or simply being out of practice has kept you from doing it.
You’re horny as hell, taking care of things yourself, and tired of having nowhere to put all of that sexual energy.
You’re in a relationship, but the sex has become mediocre, predictable, or disconnected from what you actually want.
You have desires and fantasies you’ve never given yourself permission to explore - or perhaps even say out loud - because you’re afraid of being judged, rejected, or shamed for what turns you on.
You struggle to communicate what you want, ask for something different, or speak up when the sex you’re having isn’t satisfying you.
You’re tired of keeping what you want trapped inside your head and ready to create a sex life that feels exciting, fully expressed, and completely your own.
You’ve gone through a major personal or physical transformation - maybe you’ve lost weight, rebuilt your confidence, or become a version of yourself you’ve never been before - and you’re ready to explore your sexuality from here.
what to expect:
This isn’t a challenge where I tell you to buy a sexy new pair of underwear, order a toy, and call it empowerment.
Oh no. We’re going MUCH deeper than that.
Through daily lessons and challenges, you’ll be asked to look honestly at how you abandoned this part of yourself, get to know what you truly want, and confront the fear or shame that has kept you from owning it.
You’ll learn to put words to your desires, communicate them without apology, and trust yourself to make choices that honor both what you want and who you are.
And you won’t only be thinking about it.
You’ll be challenged to begin moving differently - to express yourself, put yourself back out there, have the conversation, explore the curiosity, or take another real step toward creating the experiences you want.
HI I’M SARA
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been a sexual person.
But when I began having sex - I lost my virginity at 22 - so many of my early experiences left me feeling as though sex was something I had given to someone else.
It felt like something that had been taken from me rather than something that was for me.
Then, after a devastating breakup, I became so hurt and shut down that I didn’t date or have sex for almost five years.
I buried my desires. I numbed myself with work. I disconnected from the sexiest parts of myself.
Eventually, I decided I wanted her back.
I began exploring my sexuality on my terms. I had my first threesome, went to a few sex parties, explored my submissive side. I got honest with myself about what I wanted and began giving myself permission to actually experience it.
And it became one of the most empowering journeys of my life - because it was never simply about sex.
It taught me to speak up. To ask for what I wanted. To feel freer in my body. To trust myself. And to stop making myself wrong for the things I desired.
Today, I don’t just own those desires privately. I talk about them publicly.
It’s not always comfortable. People judge me. People try to shame me. But I remain deeply rooted in who I am, what I want, and the woman I’ve chosen to be - and I refuse to abandon her for anyone.
That is the freedom I want for more women.
I’ve also been a coach for 13 years and have coached thousands of women. While much of that work began in business, the heart of it has always been helping women get honest about what they really want, express it without abandoning themselves, and take action as the most powerful version of who they are.
Sexy Back is where those two parts of my life meet.
It’s everything I know about desire, self-trust, self-expression, and taking powerful action - applied to helping you reclaim your sexuality as your own.
an important, transparent note
I’m a coach. I’m not a therapist, trauma specialist, or certified sex coach.
Sexy Back is designed to help you get in touch with your desires, stop making yourself wrong for what you want, express yourself more confidently, and begin taking real steps toward experiencing it.
It is not designed to process or heal deep sexual trauma.
If significant sexual trauma is at the center of your relationship with sex, this may not be the appropriate container for you. You deserve support from a licensed, trauma-informed professional who is specifically qualified to help you work through that experience.
WHAT YOU’LL RECEIVE:
💋 21 Daily Audio Lessons
Beginning Monday, September 28, you’ll receive one audio lesson from me each day to help you get honest about what you want, own it without shame, express it without apology, and begin moving accordingly.
💋 21 Daily Exercises
Each lesson will include an accompanying exercise designed to help you go deeper, apply what you’re learning, and begin taking real action in your life.
💋 BONUS: Two Live Group Coaching + Q&A Calls
Monday, October 5 at 3 p.m. Pacific
Monday, October 19 at 3 p.m. Pacific
Bring your questions, what you’re exploring, what’s coming up for you, and anywhere you’re feeling stuck.
💋 BONUS: Write Your Sexy Dating Profile Bio
A training complete with prompts and guidance to help you write a bold, honest, magnetic dating profile bio - one that communicates what you actually want, captures who you are, and attracts the people and experiences you’re looking for.
READY? LET’S DO THIS.
Or upgrade to VIP and receive the complete Sexy Back experience plus a private 60-minute coaching session with me.
a final note from sara
Maybe reclaiming this part of yourself is something you’ve been thinking about for a long time.
Or maybe you’ve been so busy ignoring, burying, or talking yourself out of what you want that you haven’t fully realized how much you miss her.
Either way, Sexy Back is your opportunity to spend 21 days intentionally choosing this part of yourself again.
To stop treating your sexuality like an afterthought.
To listen to what you want. To use your voice. To let your desires matter. And to begin moving through your life accordingly.
You don’t need to have every desire figured out before you join.
You only need to be willing to tell yourself the truth - and commit to no longer abandoning the woman you discover there.
She is still in there. It’s time to bring her back.